Some people think that the advice you can give a couple with regardrs to creating a happy marriage is obvious. Is it really? There are so many failed marriages, proving that it is really not as easy as all that to be in a a happy marriage. As the saying goes, it takes “two to tango”. Both people in a marriage have to be invested it is success and that can require a lot of selflessness.
So what is the best advice for a a happy marriage?
1-.You have to communicate in a happy marriage
A relationship is nothing without communication-and that does not include arguing and snapping at each other, it means genuinely talking to each other inn. So that means switching off the television and taking about your day, or sharing with your partner when something is up.
If you are not share and communicate with your partner, problems can snowball over time. What was nothing can become insurmountable.It can be tough and sometimes uncomfortable but you have to talk to each other and sometimes about stuff that is really hard. Life is hard and complicated but together it is so much easier and more bearable when you go through tough times.
3-.Ups and Downs in marriage
Understand that marriage is for the long term with ups and downs. People change and life brings changes and challenges. Sometimes you are stressed, anxious, have health issues, are tired but you have to make your marriage a priority. You should never take your partner for granted and always listen and hear what the other person is saying.
4-Be kind and considerate
Be considerate, be kind, think about your partner. Enjoy doing things and supporting each other. If you are considerate it will often be reciprocated.
5-. There are 2 people in this marriage
A marriage is made of 2 people, with all the good and bad points. You have to accept someone for who they are and don’t try and change them. You can evolve together, but don’t try and mould each other.
Life is complicated, messy and at times difficult. If you have a happy, supportive partner, it can make your troubles seem a lot smaller and life so much happier and more fulfilling.